Monday, August 17, 2009

Boys Can Do Anything

Equality is usually a world we hear in relationship to girls and women. The assumption is that boys and men have ruled the world for so long that there's virtually nothing they can't do.


Rigid role expectations still confine far too many boys (& men) to less-than-fulfilling lives. The Boy Code is still going strong, and boys who stray from the norms of standard male behavior risk being called queers and fags.

So it is with great pleasure that I introduce you to the Dazl Diamonds all-boys peewee cheer squad:

The boys from Leeds are believed to be Europe's first all-male cheerleading squad. These young lads have looked the stereotypes square in the face and decided to do what they love, regardless of whether it's a "girl thing" or a "boy thing."

They're getting healthy while they do it, too. DAZL is a community dance and health project designed, initially, to improve the mental and physical health of young women through dance activity in the disadvantaged communities of south Leeds.

According to their 2006-2007 annual report, "DAZL targets young people who lack access to positive activities or who are at risk of sedentary lifestyles and those not involved in regular sports activity. " In other words: It's OK if you're not a jock. Just shake your groove thang.

Too many boys today are limited to football, basketball, baseball and soccer. Physical fitness, though, is much more than that. The key to long-term fitness is finding an activity you enjoy, because if you don't enjoy you're "chosen" sport or activity, you're probably not going to keep it up for long.

So let's expand our notions of what boys can do and support our sons, no matter what they choose.

Even if it involves pom-poms.


  1. I just showed the video to Boys #2 and 3. Boy #2's comment? "Are those boys with pom-poms?" Me: "Yes." Boy #2: "Dork, dork, dork, dork."

    Apparently, I still have some work to do.

  2. I am one of the mums of these boys snd there are anything but DORKY..they are brilliant in every way, if you were to see these boys they are absoultly fab!!! and i think that people owt to give them a break and let them get on with they are doing and enjoying.
    lets go boys all us mums are so proud of you and we love ya loads x

  3. Claire,
    Welcome! Thanks for visiting. Please pass my congratulations on to your son and his teammates. I think they're phenomenonal. (And I was very pleased this morning to hear my 11-yr-old Boy #1 tell Boy #2 how close minded his comment was!)