...but not on the walls.
Not that I have anything against blue walls, per say. It's just blue CRAYON on walls that gets to me. Specifically, blue crayon on upstairs hallway walls after 9 pm at night.
I tucked my three- and six-year olds into bed at 8 pm last night. The three-year-old, however, was clearly not ready for sleep. I laid with him awhile, then headed downstairs to clean up the kitchen. I told him I'd be back soon to check on him.
While I was downstairs, I heard a mysterious "swooshing" sound upstairs. It sounded like Boy #2 rummaging his hand through the Lego bin, and considering that Boy #2 was up and creating is his room, that seemed like a plausible explanation. Occam's razor, right?
I. Was. Wrong.
The "swooshing" sound was my three-year-old, unleashing his artistic creativity all over the upstairs walls. And we're not talking a little streak here, a straight line there. We're talking serious scribbles. This boy clearly put some effort into this work. He touched virtually every single surface of the upstairs hall.
It's not the kind of sight that makes a parent's heart leap at 9 pm at night -- not when said parent feels a cold coming on, still has over an hour of work to do and hasn't even finished the supper dishes. It's the kind of sight that makes you wonder why you ever signed up for this parenting gig in the first place.
My three-year-old grinned at me. "Did you do this?" I asked. "I'm sorry," he said. "What are you supposed to write on?" I asked. "Paper," he said. "That's right," I said. "Crayons are for on paper, not walls. Tomorrow you're going to help me clean this up." Then I asked what was, to my mind, the most important question of the moment: "Where's the crayon right now?" "In the garbage," he said.
I led him back to bed, tucked him in again and mentally re-organized my to-do list. The walls would most certainly have to wait.
After a few minutes -- and a promise to return soon to check on him -- I headed downstairs to finish up the kitchen. Again, I heard a strange "swooshing" sound. I hurried upstairs -- and found my 11-year-old son scrubbing the crayon off the walls.
My heart, which a few minutes before, felt defeated, swelled with love. It's those moments -- unexpected tender moments of love -- which sustain parents and given us the strength to keep going. Those moments aren't nearly as common as the blue-crayon-on-the-wall moments, but they're the counterpoint that allows us to maintain some sense of balance. They're the rests in a musical score gone crazy.
Despite me telling him he didn't have to, Boy #1 scrubbed until all the crayon was gone. "It's easier when it's fresh," he told me. "And blue is one of the easiest colors to get off. Red and black are the hardest." Impressed by his knowledge, I asked him "How do you know?"
He smiled. "Don't look in the back of my closet."
What a sweet story. You might enjoy this one also. It doesn't have such a sweet ending, but it is cute; http://harphouse.blogspot.com/2009/10/3-minutes.htmlReplyDelete
As a parent with child decorated walls, I just have to chuckle. No deep insight, nothing.ReplyDelete
Hooray for the clean-up from boy #4!
Aww. It could be hormones, but I got a little teary that big brother cleaned up for the little guy. So sweet.ReplyDelete
I still have to figure out how to get sidewalk chalk off the LCD T.V. Screen without causing more damage.ReplyDelete
Nate -- Have you tried the wipes specially made for things like computer and LCD screens? I don't know if they would work for sidewalk chalk or not (luckily, I haven't had that problem -- yet!), but it might be worth a try.ReplyDelete
:)At then last paragraph you meant Boy#1 cleaned up right ?ReplyDelete
Just triple checking
Mommyhood is pretty amazing!
Thanks, Blessed! You're absolutely right; it weas Boy #1. Off to change that now...ReplyDelete
Just a little insider information:ReplyDelete
My company manufactures those wipes as a contract for another company. Per conversations with someone who knows, they aren't worth the money.
Actually, he said a little dionized or distilled water and a soft cloth shoud do it.
When you eventually gather many of your parenting stories into book form, be sure to include this one.ReplyDelete
Awww...that brought tears to my eyes. What a caring young man you're raising there. Good job, Mom.ReplyDelete
And, hey, just for that, I would scrupulously ignore the back of his closet. ;-)
I've been tempted, but thus far I've resisted the urge to peek at the back of his closet. :)ReplyDelete
Nate -- Thanks for the insider info!
Oh no! I hate crayon on the walls! With 4 boys I really should buy stock in the magic eraser, and not just for crayons...for fingerprints and dirt and everything else! Aren't little boys fun!? :)ReplyDelete
That is so sweet of your oldest! Funny that he knew which colors were hardest to get off though! ha ha! :)
Oh, and I'm following your lovely blog! Love finding other blogs about raising boys! :)
Glad to get the link to your blog and read your crayon story. Very sweet! I wonder how many similar stories we could find in the blogging world. . .ReplyDelete